She'd turned 5, just yesterday and I thought once and for all, all her tantrums have finally come to an end, but.... *******heaving a huge sigh*****
I was wrong...
Just this morning Fatini threw one of her best tantrum again, ahah, and many times, all her tantrums were baseless!
Fatini and her inferiority complex behavior sometimes drives me nuts! Is it really inferiority complex?
1~~ She refused to talk at Kindergarten, and often her teacher would persuade her to talk, and she got all stressed-out that eventually lead to tantrums.
2~~ About a month ago, she refused to wear a hat and a shawl and gloves for fearing people would notice her for the cute stuffs she's wearing, and being a mother who have had enough arguments with her, I just let her until her teacher started complaining that she needed a hat and a shawl...
So I told her teacher, Fatini has all that at home but she refused to put it on, and she gave me this look that says, "Are you the boss or your daughter is?"
Ok, ok, so the next day I brought a shawl and a hat and gloves, put them on Fatini's shelf, and bear another tantrum from her all morning because she didn't want to put them on but her teacher would force her, that's what she said...
And yes, she was forced to put them on because it was cold, and when I reached kindergarten to pick her up, I was 5 minutes early and all the kids were playing outside, and there I saw Fatini standing alone, with a hat and her shawl around her neck, did nothing at all but just cover her face with both hands...
Sedih pun ade, nak tergelak pun ade hehehe
And two days ago, just before her Birthday, she threw another tantrum because she hated her Birthday, and that she didn't want them (people in Kindergarten) to celebrate her Birthday!!
The weird Fatini but very special hehe..
Nevertheless, I don't wanna argue with Fatini no more, I learnt from her Kindergarten teachers that Fatini is a queen and that she needed to be forced sometimes if coaxing and persuasion didn't work.
Hehehe... On the way back from Kindergarten today!
Funny, I arrived 5 minutes early again today, spot her and waved.
She quickly jumped and cover her face, looked at me again and cover her face once more..
Later I asked her, why did she cover her face when she saw me outside the fence.
"Fatini malu, tak nak orang tengok Fatini senyum..."
Pulak dah... haaaiiihhhh macam2...
Ape ape je lah Fatini... hehehe...