Interesting Story...

Yesterday hubby sent me this wonderful story thru Facebook.. the story is sooo interesting especially when the writer is a man !! Tak ramai yang mampu berfikir macam mamat ni, he's amazing, and hubby yg share this story with me is also amazing!!!

Thanx my dear..

Kalau semua suami bole berfikir macam ni & menghargai wanita, insyaAllah isteri2 jugak akan dgn rela hati nya mentaati suami and buat ape saja untuk suami !!

Sebelum minta isteri mencontohi sifat isteri2 Rasullullah, suami dulu kena lah mencontohi Rasullullah kan...

Baca jangan tak baca.. the appreciation brought tears to my eyes ;)

Bila SUAMI balik rumah.... Dia jadi heran giler halaman umah berselerak, surat kat peti pos tak berambil, anak-anak tengah main korek-korek tanah kotor, baju compang-camping, penuh dengan tanah dan kotoran, rambut tak bersikat, tak bermandi.. Masuk ke pintu rumah lagi lelaki tu terkejut.



waaa... mana isteri ku...



Ruang tamu lagi teruk berselerak. Lelaki tu melaung nama isterinya.. Sepi tiada jawapan. Masuk ke dapur, sinki penuh dengan pinggan mangkuk tak berbasuh, periuk tak bercuci, mencari apa yang boleh dimakan tetapi tiada makanan yang dimasak. Masuk ke bilik air, baju belum berbasuh apatah lagi berendam. Lelaki itu cemas mencari isterinya. Dia bergegas ke tingkat atas melihat isterinya terbaring di atas katil sedang membaca buku.



fuuu.. lega..



“Awak sakit ke?” tanya lelaki itu. “Tak lah”, jawab isterinya ringkas. “Kenapa teruk sangat rumah kita hari ni?” Tanya si suami lagi sambil meletakkan tangan di dahi isterinya, kot-kot isterinya demam.“Wahai suamiku, semalam semasa kita bertengkar, abg mengatakan yang saya ini hanyalah suri rumah, duduk di rumah tak sepenat diri abg yang duduk di pejabat, dan abg sering menanyakan apa kerja yang saya lakukan di rumah yang menyebabkan saya merungut kepenatan kadang-kadang..



lelaki tu pun berfikir...



Kalau madam takde kat umah, alangkah tenteramnya hidup ini. Boleh buat ape yang kita suka. Boleh belengkar kat depan TV tanpa sebarang gangguan mental dan fizkal. Pendek kata, FreeDoMmmmmlah!! But hairan bin ajaib, when dia betul-betul pergi meaning “She’s Gone”’ aku plak trasa separuh mati. Sehari dua memanglah shiokkk, no one shouting from the kitchen for help, no o

ne to komen this and that, no one to criticize. Everything will be smooth…



hahaha... takde yg nak marah ku...



Tp masuk hari ketige, I felt something missing. Lebih-lebih lagi bila tuala mandi dah berbau ‘asshemmmm’, tak tau la mana nak cari yang baru. Colgate da nak abis, tak tau kat mana dia stock up. Air suam da habis, malas nk boil… Masuk hari keempat, rindu mula terasa...





Apabila rindu mencengkam, semuanya jadi tak tentu arah. Tengok TV citer best pon jadi tak best. Nasik bungkus feberite jadik tak feberite. Makan kat 5 star hotel jadik rasa macam makan kat kedai AA. Lebih-lebih lagi bila laundry basket da makin bertimbun ngan baju kotor. Toilet dah mula licin berdaki.. Lantai dah berbelak, tak dimop.. Every nite, very the lonely, baring atas katil nengok ceiling blindly.. bila lonely gini, baru lah rasa benar kesepian.



Jangan kata sebulan atau setahun, belum seminggu isteri takde kat umah, aku dah rasa separuh pengsan. Masa ni barulah sedar netapa pentingnya seorang wanita bernama isteri… So guys out there.. jgn buli isteri kite. Kalau boleh, tolong dia buat kerja rumah. Bukan dok depan TV every weekend baca paper. Apa ingat dia tu kuli ker?! Maid ker?!! Kan dia tu bini kita, best fren kita, sweetheart kita.. Ingat duit hantaran yang kita kasik dia masa nikah dulu cukup ker nak bayar gaji dia ..................................................................seumur hidup ???



ingat balik..



And furthermore, kan sama2 kerja carik rezeki, sama jugak lah buat kerja rumah. Kadang2 bila poket kita sesak, tak ingat ker dialah orang yang paling dekat terdekat kita nak kenyeng-kenyeng duit. Tak kesian ker nengok bini kita? Dah la satu hari keja kat office, balik pulak kena buat kerja rumah lagi… penat tau! Kalaulah aku diberi peluang jadik seorang wanita,… tak rela!!! So to all mums and wives out there, live will be meaningless without You mothers. Uwaaaaaaa!!



SAYANGI LA KAUM PEREMPUAN KERANA TANPA MEREKA ANDA KEHILANGAN SESUATU..

HARGAI MEREKA!!!!!



Dari ilham seorang lelaki.. “ Wanita adalah insan istimewa, biarkan mereka terus membebel, merengek atau mengilai seperti Pontianak. Seburukburuk perangai wanita, ia akan terus melekat di hati kita selagi hayat di kandung badan”

sile share slpas mmbace agar lelaki tahu mghargai wanita ♥

Him, in memories...

Been thinking bout him a lot, been missing him, been thinking bout the times when I took care of him and that I hadn't done the best for him.. mom said, he too had been asking bout me a lot, he'd even asked mom to give me some money incase I had some sort of a financial problem living abroad.

Last Ramadhan, for unknown reason, I felt the strong urge and need to see him, that I made Doa;

"Ya Allah, izinkan kami untuk berjumpa lagi..."

Sometimes the feeling was so strong that it made me wonder;

'Is he going to leave me? Or that i'm the one who's going to leave him?'

Bout three weeks after Ramadhan's over, it was Saturday and we were at a friend's open house in Bonn, I was telling my friends bout him being bedridden for so long and that I've missed my family a lot and that my plan is to go back to Malaysia next year... Then we were having a good laughs and a great time there, and I had not even the slightest idea that at that very moment, he was bout to leave this earth...

If only I knew, I would have helped him going through it, I would recite Surah Yassin for him non stop until his last breath.... but I didn't know, I had no idea at all... that saddened me the most.. the thought of him going thru 'Sakaratul maut', and I was having a great time and a good laughs...

but there's no one to blame, mom said she'd only noticed something was wrong with him bout two hours before he breath his last breaths...

mom said the last time she'd seen him awake was at bout 12pm that Saturday, then when mom checked on him again, he was already asleep..

then he never woke up again...

mom tried to wake him up many times, as he had not yet taken his lunch, but to no avail.. at 9pm, mom noticed that his breathing became ragged, mom started reciting al-fatihah over and over again for him, then my sister (who's a doctor) arrived home from work at bout 11pm, and was shocked to find him in his condition and immediately checked on his lungs, and found out that one of his lungs had stopped functioning.. they called an ambulance immediately and when the paramedics arrived, they confirmed that my Father had passed away...

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un....

When I received the news, I was still at my friend's house, only those who were there knew how shocking this was to me and how heartbroken I was... it's not that I was not willing him to go, this is Allah's will, of course I'm redha, and of course I've accepted it with an open heart, but I was just really hoping and wishing that I could meet him again for the last time... I wish I could take care of him again, give him the best in everything even if it's only for a few days...

It was so unexpected, mom always said abah was getting stronger, and he could stand on his own unlike before when he always needed assistance..

Last Syawal, mom said he'd requested to be taken to the living room which was also unlike him, so he could watch all his grandchildren played. Usually, he'd just preferred to stay inside his room, on his bed..

I guess that was also one of the signs that he's going to leave all of us...

Nevertheless, I could still do the best for him, in fact even better...

Rasulullah SAW bersabda, “Bila seorang anak Adam
wafat, maka amalnya terputus kecuali tiga hal:

[1] Sedekah jariah,

[2] Ilmu yang bermanfaat dan

[3] Anak soleh yang mendoakan kepada orang tuanya.

(HR. Muslim, Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidzi, Nasa’i dan Ahmad)

InsyaAllah, I'll always pray for arwah abah for as long as I live...

Arwah abah had sacrificed so much for me, he had done so much in order for me to make it to the top.. and I've never repayed him enough..

I couldn't forget his last word to Fatini before we depart last year,

"Fatini balik nanti, tok wan dah tak de...." huhu..

That thought always bring tears to my eyes...

We flew back to Malaysia about a week after the shocking news, I knew even if we had gone back immediately after I received the news, I would still not be able to see jenazah, it's just too far.. InsyaAllah, i'll later write bout our journey and the most precious and wonderful moments we had in Malaysia with our family even if it's just for only two weeks..

"Ya Allah, tempatkanlah arwah abah bersama mereka yang beriman dan beramal soleh serta bertaqwa, Ya Allah cucuri lah rahmat Mu ke atas roh nya, ampuni lah segala dosa arwah abah sewaktu hayat nya ada di dunia..."

Semoga roh abah tenang di sana dan semoga bertemu abah lagi di akhirat kelak.... Amin...

Mommy moment @ Gartenschau

Once again, cerita yg dah basi hehe... this visit to Gartenschau was about 2 weeks ago, it's a very nice place , very suitable for children and also adult for lepaking, chit chatting, etc etc..

We knew bout this place long ago, I think bout last winter we discovered it, but it was closed during winter and so we had to wait..

Now it's open again, and look at the view from afar..

Bole nampak dinosor dari jauh, hehe, cam real..

Besar betul dinasor nye, cam real kan.. hehe

Me posing with my feveret dinasor hehe..

Kat celah2 pokok pun ade hehe..

Ade jugak section untuk fairytale, this one is Hansel & Gratel.

This one is Cinderella, Fatini's feveret..

That's me and Anna :)

This is Eliz, Anna's daughter.. Anna has three children too, just like me hehe.. but look at her, she's way slimmer than me hehe..

From left : Anna, Charlotte, me and Naliah. All are working mother except Anna and me. Naliah is a midwife and she only takes care of home birth, so she has lots of free time, so they often spend their time at Gartenschau ni..

in short, this is their feveret place to lepak la haha.. and they had asked me to join them again next time.. so sweet of them.. :)

I'm impressed by their ability to speak in many languages, for example, Naliah, she can speak good French, Deutsch and English. Anna can also speak good french and Deutsch, but her English is not so good. But it's enough for us to communicate. And Charlotte speaks really good English and Deutsch of course. Charlotte had once lived in London for bout two years if i'm not mistaken, and already she could speak so good with the British accent lagi hehe..

Anyway, after hanging out with them, I realized that I have a huge opportunity to practice Deutsch and also English with them. Learning language isn't enough, we need somebody to practice it with, after all, practice makes perfect right?

All these while, I always depend on English, searching for people who's able to speak in English, but now, I think the time has come for me to try Deutsch, try with friends like this, tak la malu sangat kalau silap2 kan, infact diorang pun bole tolong tunjuk ajar ngeh ngeh :)

Anyway, they are great friends, always showing concerns, very helpful, funny, easy going and friendly.. :)

They've added more colors in my life here in Deutschland :)

Fatini @ Dance Class :)

She has been dancing at home, she loves Angelina Ballerina, she loves watching ballet shows, she has been imitating the ballet dance moves, doing split, fantasizing about being on stage dancing like a beatiful ballerina :)

Hahaha that's my girl Fatini..

After observing and realizing this talent in her, we've decided to take her to a dance class.

It's not at all a problem for us here, for such courses are available everywhere and also very cheap.

So, this is her first day!! The dance class is held every Friday at 2.15pm until 3pm.

I had to accompany her last Friday and probably for the rest of the course ngeh ngeh.

See, she's the smallest !

The class is meant for children above 4 years old, and since she's barely 4 years old, they let her try the first class before deciding wether she should continue or not.

At first, she seemed a bit reluctant to do all the moves that the teacher had asked her to do, you can check the video out !

I was almost certain that they won't let her continue, hehe, but towards the end...

Taaadaaaaaaaaaaaa....

hahaha !!

Cute tak?

Prima means (great, fantastic ! )

hehehe..

Excited nak beli baju ballet and kasut ballet untuk Fatini :)

Lemang Oven

Salam Lebaran to all, since lots of people had asked me on how to make this lemang, so I'll post the recipe and methods here..

Hopefully it is helpful for those who want to try making lemang on their own...

credits to my beloved mother for the recipe :)

Ingredients:

Glutinous Rice (beras pulut) about 2 cups.

Santan bout 1 cup mixed with a bit of salts.

Daun pisang and Aluminium foil for wrapping purposes.

Methods:

Rendam beras pulut satu malam, then tos kan. Kukus beras pulut yang dah di tos tu sampai beras tu lembut sket. Lebih kurang 1/2 jam kukus kot.

Lepas tu tuangkan santan yg dah di campur garam tadi sikit demi sedikit sambil kacau rata santan tu.

Kadang2 x sampai secawan santan pun, kena agak2 sendiri bila nampak macam santan tu dah cover seluruh beras pulut tadi, and x bole terlalu berair sampai nampak santan bertakung kat bawah mangkuk, nanti jadi lembik.

Sebab tu kena masuk kan sket2 santan tu, and sambil gaul ratakan.

Bila dah siap, cedok letak atas daun pisang and wrap, guna aluminium foil sebagai lapisan kedua and mampatkan pulut tu, gulung la cantik2 utk dapatkan hasil yg memuaskan hati :)

Then bakar la dalam oven pada suhu 180 degree selama lebih kurang 1/2 jam.

Selamat mencuba !!