BMW

Anybody can have a BMW car here, and Mercedes Benz too... even a bus driver owns a BMW.. mmmm

Oh dear, funny funny!

Today, he's excited to go to kindergarten, coz he already has one german friend. unfortunately he understands not a single word his friend was saying.. so i asked, how did u communicate with your friend? and proudly he said "Sign language!" hahaha and he even showed me how he did it, and even funnier he said his friend laughed every time he did it.. hahaha kesian.. i told him, not to worry, he'll pick up the language soon.. he already picked up some.. children, they make friends easily. i remember one funny story my brother told me, "two children were playing in a park, parents chatted while watching their kids play, unfortunately kids got into a fight, punching each other, parents interfered and anger took hold and they themselves exchanging bad words, siding their own children and eventually took their children home. The next day, the same two families went to the same park, both children played together like nothing has ever happened, laughing and giggling, whereas both parents never spoken to each other ever again.. i found this story truly enchanting hahaha!

"Terimalah semua yang telah Allah berikan kepadamu dan jadilah kamu termasuk orang-orang yang bersyukur (AL-A'RAF : 144)"

I LOVE BEING ME SO MUCH...

I have to constantly remind myself that, so that i'll be thankful and grateful for what i have and for who i am.. that way i'll love myself more and more each day.. if we don't love ourselves, how is it possible for us to love anybody else..??

Certainly the journey of creating a loving relationship can be rocky at times. Problems are definitely inevitable. But these problems either can be sources of resentment and rejection or can be opportunities for deepening intimacy and increasing love, caring and trust. Like my hubby once said, 'if trust wears thin, sincerity and respect become things of unheard' but i think it's not just sincerity and respect but everything else too.
I've learnt from the book that the two biggest mistakes we make in relating to the opposite sex are men mistakenly offer solutions and invalidate feelings while woman offer unsolicited advice and direction. oooo men hates that yeah?
While men tend to pull away and silently think bout what's bothering them, woman on the other hand feel an instinctive need to talk bout what's bothering them. Men primarily need a kind of love that is trusting, accepting, and appreciative while woman primarily need a kind of love that is caring, understanding and respectful.. mmmm... thers a whole lot more, very very interesting book, as i read more and more, i found myself nodding to every single statement mentioned bout how woman behave and react and feel, and i would say to myself, " oh ya, that is sooo like me..." Relationship is not complicated, with a clear awareness of our differences, we will take the time to understand and respect each other and becoming demanding, resentful, judgmental and intolerant are all avoidable....